Did you tell people that you were matched?  When did you tell?  Who did you tell?  We have been matched with a birthmom since April 5th.  She was only 11 weeks pregnant, so we didn't tell hardly anyone.  She is now 26 weeks pregnant, and due in October.  We went to Ohio to meet her last weekend, and at the end of the month, she is moving to Alabama, where we live, until she has the baby.  She has several reasons for placing the baby and a great support system.

I was very against telling people, just because, things can always go wrong.  However, it is getting difficult. I hate lying to people if they ask us if we know anything yet.  Also, between church, my home based business, etc., there have already been things where people are trying to make schedules for October.  When I tell them that I can't help or can't participate, they look at me weird, because I always help or participate.

Please let me know your advice.  I would love any input that you have!!!